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I keep saying I have healed…but the way I reacted yesterday says that’s not really true. Family, healing is not what we say…healing is what shows up when we are triggered. Father, open our eyes today. Not to what we say about ourselves…but to what You see in us. Show us what’s still there that is unlike You and give us the grace to face it. In Jesus’ name, amen. Some of us have learned how to talk healed…but we haven’t actually become healed. It sounds good. It looks good. Bu

Looking back over the past four days, we talked about knowing better and doing better—and recognised that knowing is not enough if we don’t apply it. We explored consistency, not being on and off but aligning daily with what we say we believe. We examined our responses, understanding they reveal what is within us. And we questioned whether God truly spoke to us in a particular situation, because not every move is a God move. So this week was about alignment. Praying but still

Family, one of the most sensitive and serious things we can say is, “God told me.” Because when we say that, we are not just expressing a feeling. We are attaching God’s name to a decision. And the truth is, not everything we move into is something God actually said. Proverbs 16:9 (KJV) reminds us, “A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the Lord directeth his steps.” And we have seen this play out in our lives and that of others as well: We plan, decide, and even convince ourse

Family, many times we ask why the same situations keep showing up in our lives, but we do not always stop to examine what those situations are revealing. We do know that it is one thing for a situation to repeat. It is another thing for our response to remain the same. And if both the situation and the response are not changing, then there is something deeper going on. Could it be that God is developing something in us that has not yet been formed? Because not everything tha

Family, here’s a question. Why is it that we can start so strong in relationships, show up fully, do all the right things… and then somewhere along the way, we fall off and can’t seem to stay consistent? How many times have we entered a relationship, a commitment, even a new approach, with the right mindset, the right intentions, and the right energy… and somewhere along the way, we fell off? I have personally started things like furthering my education or even trying to sav

I asked sometime ago if we could get more real and personal in these discussions. I didn’t see many yeses, but the Spirit of the Lord continues to lead, and I continue to follow. Because the goal is not to expose anyone, but for us to be honest enough to examine ourselves, to confront what needs to change, and to grow into who God is calling us to be. Amen?!! Family, let’s bring this into real life this morning, because this is where it matters most. Not just in theory, but i

When we believe in something or someone, we become confident in it. We speak about it, we stand by it, we defend it. That is why there are heated debates and arguments that sometimes even lead to conflict among friends, family members, and even church members. Because we feel strongly about an issue and are not easily moved from what we believe. But here’s an interesting truth: many of us believe, but we do so quietly. We know what God has done. We have seen His Hand in our l

Each of us has had seasons in our lives where everything seems to be at a standstill. Nothing is changing. Nothing is moving. Nothing is responding. And if we are honest, these are the moments that challenge our faith the most. Because it is one thing to believe when we see progress; it is quite another thing to believe when everything looks the same. This is where faith begins. This is where our faith is put to the test. This, Family, is where we are challenged to and called

Family, many of us are tired. Not because we are not trying, but because we keep finding ourselves in the same cycles. Same struggles.Same reactions. Same outcomes. And after a while, it starts to feel like this is just how life will be. Interestingly, many Christians are in that place right now: feeling like it is finished, but not in the way Jesus declared it. But thank God for the resurrection, which changes all that. 1 Corinthians 15:57 (KJV): “But thanks be to God, whi

You know, here, we try to be as real as possible, right? And so I want to begin today with this bold statement that all of us would do well to realise and accept, so that we can get to fixing those issues that are holding us back from walking in the new life God has already given us. So we can agree: It is one thing to say we are new in Christ, but it is another thing to actually live like it. If we are honest, many of us believe the right things, but still struggle with the

Family, many of us have moments where we feel like we’ve gone too far, done too much, or delayed too long. And quietly, we begin to believe that where we are is where we will always be. We give up, we settle into the status quo, and we say: whatever. That is not even acceptable in the natural, and even more so in our spiritual lives. Because our spiritual lives are not meant to be governed by what we feel, but by what God has already spoken. The Word of God says in Zephaniah

Have we ever taken a step back and realised—were not who we used to be? Wait a minute: I’ve grown. You’ve matured. We’ve come a long way. But yet… there’s still that one thing. Because nobody is perfect, right? There’s that one reaction when we’re triggered. That one mindset we fall back into/under pressure. That one pattern that keeps repeating itself. That’s frustrating. Because it feels like we’ve made progress… but not enough. When we get to this point, we realise that th

Have you ever found yourself in a season that feels uncomfortable… stretched… even frustrating—and no matter how much you pray about it, it hasn’t changed? You ask God to fix it. You asked Him to remove it. You asked Him to shift it. And yet… it is still there. And if we’re honest, that can be confusing. Because we know God has the power to change things. “Ah Lord God! behold, thou hast made the heaven and the earth by thy great power and stretched out arm, and there is noth

Have you ever been in a place where something made perfect sense to you? It looked right. It felt right. You even prayed about it. And yet… the answer didn’t come the way you expected. I know I have been there. Many times. I remember praying for a baby boy…at least twice. I have 3 girls. That’s very often a difficult place to be in. Praying hard, earnestly for something you are convinced is best for you - a decision, an outcome, a job, a resolution to a conflict, a financial

Have you ever reached a place where you’re still showing up, still functioning, still doing what needs to be done… but something inside of you feels like you cannot make another move? Not broken on the outside. Not falling apart where everyone can see.But internally… tired. Many of us have been there, at the place where strength becomes something we perform. We’ve learned how to keep it together. We’ve learned how to push through. We’ve learned how to carry things without let

Have we ever found ourselves doing everything we know to do—planning, thinking things through, trying to be responsible—and yet, something still feels unsettled? Not because we’re careless… but because despite all the effort, things are not lining up the way we expected. And that’s where the frustration comes in. Because it’s one thing when things go wrong. It’s another thing when we’ve done everything right… and it’s still not working. And if we’re honest, that pressure is c

This week, we have been discovering, or we were reminded of some truths about the waiting season: Waiting is not punishment—it is preparation, and what we do during that season makes all the difference. We have also learnt, or it was emphasised, that God is not ignoring us; He is working in us. Today, we come to another powerful moment: the realisation that we cannot stay stagnant as we wait, because life will leave us behind. We have to be about moving forward. Because every

One of the biggest tensions in a waiting season is this: You want to move forward, but you’re not always sure how. So you plan. You think. You map things out. And that’s not wrong. But here’s where we need clarity. And for this, we go to the Bible. Proverbs 16:9 (KJV) says: “A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps.” This Scripture shows us something powerful: There is a difference between making plans and being led by God. So: Planning is what we do.

Is there any among us who can truly say that they have never had to deal with any sort of challenge in their entire life? I think not. Why? Because challenges, like it or not, are not optional in life. They will come—unexpected, uncomfortable, and sometimes overwhelming. But as believers, the question is not, “Will I face challenges?” The question is, “How will I respond when they come?” Because our response will determine whether we grow or get stuck. Romans 8:28 (KJV) says:

One of the biggest struggles in a waiting season is not just trusting God once—it’s staying consistent in that trust. Because some days, you feel strong. You’re praying, you’re focused, you’re encouraged. And on other days… you feel tired. Distracted. Even a little disconnected. And the truth is, inconsistency is where many people lose momentum. But here’s what we need to understand: God is not asking for perfection. He is asking for consistency. Galatians 6:9 (KJV) encourage